Researching Accessory Trends – What’s in my Wardrobe?

Going through the first issue of the Gothic and Lolita Bible got me thinking about trends in my own wardrobe. If an anthropologist were to go through my lolita coordinate snaps, what kinds of trends would they see? I decided to look at a snapshot from the first 8 months of 2021 and look at the accessories that I used in my coordinate photos.

For the purposes of this experiment, I defined an accessory as “not a main piece, shoes, blouse, or socks.” Necklaces, bracelets, rings, headwear, brooches, and more all fall into this category. While I’ve definitely worn my pieces more casually at other times, I count 15 coordinates that I’ve actually photographed. My accessory count for 15 coordinate was 45 accessories.

I was surprised as I looked at photos how few accessories I wore sometimes! Dresses with interesting necklines, for example, didn’t get a necklace. Same for blouses with interesting collars. Brooches in general got lots of wear, although I was pleased to see that I had the most variety in the pins I wore. There was only one pin I wore more than once!

So what trends did I see? I had three items that were clear winners.

Honorable mentions

There were 7 items that were worn twice in my coordinates. They included a red wool beret, a straw floral hat (a gift from a thoughtful friend), pins from Lulu Vanhoagland, headdress from Paradise Rose, thrifted fake collars from Depop, wrist cuffs from Kira Kira Kawaii, and a mirror necklace from a gift exchange.

Red beret
Red beret: a classic.

Some of these weren’t very surprising to me. If I need a long necklace, my mirror necklace is a handy piece that works in my classic coordinates. Likewise, Lulu Vanhoagland’s enamel pins add the perfect mix of melancholy and cute for any lolita who wants to cut the sweetness a little.

Mirror necklace
Mirror necklace: great length!

#2. Three strand pearl bracelet from Wax Poetic (3 wears)

Wax Poetic’s classic style is really similar to mine. So when I politely (read: annoyingly) asked if she’d ever considered making bracelets, I knew I’d love whatever she came up with. This bracelet has been a favorite since I got it. I also have it in black!

Three strand pearl bracelet: the perfect classic lolita accessory!

#2. Wide brim straw hat from Wheat Goddess (aka the Ren Faire Hat) (3 wears)

Long before I knew what j-fashion was, I was playing dress up at the Southern California Renaissance Pleasure Faire. I’ve built up a sizable ren faire wardrobe, but this practical, gorgeous hats was one of my first purchases. It seems unbelievably expensive at the time, but I’ve never regretted it! I swap out the ribbons to match my outfits. Plus, it’s perfect for outings in the summer when shade is scarce.

Straw Hat from the Wheat Goddess: in style since 1602

#1. Plastic bracelet set from Aliexpress (5 wears)

When I was first beginning my lolita journey, I seriously hated wrist cuffs. I knew I needed something for my budding wardrobe, so I found a set of 6-7 plastic stretchy bracelets on Aliexpress for cheap. They’ve proven invaluable as easy to wear additions to my coordinates. They look cute on their own or stacked up together.

Plastic bracelet: is it possible to wear something too much? Nope!

What do you think you’d find if you examined your coordinate snaps this way?


  1. It’s funny that you ask because early this year I sis a post of my most worn items of 2020. But since I started counting that one late in 2020 (and there were too many outfits to go through), I didn’t include jewellery, so this year I’ve been tracking everything from the start. So I checked where I’m at and in both the jewellery and the headpiece category I have a tie: between a green velvet headbow from Cutie Creator and the custom-made headdress from Kaneko (both worn 4 times so far), and in the jewellery department between my Big Pink Boutique heart earrings, a set of small plastic pearl bracelets and a set of plastic pink x lavender bracelets (each worn 5 times so far). And what’s interesting is that they both tell two different stories and of two different trends within the same wardrobe and as worn by the same person. By comparison your stats so far point to a far more cohesive style or at least preferences this year. Let’s see what things will look like at the end of the year, shall we? 🙂

    1. Jenna S says:

      Your closet retrospectives were definitely an inspiration! I’ll look forward to both of our end of year deep dives and see what they uncover.

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